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Compassionate and good-natured ISFJs often have their own view of what’s morally right, and they are guided by their emotions and the need for security. Or, more precisely, that’s what we can expect from a typical ISFJ.
To understand the atypical ISFJs, we would need to look closer at their Enneagram types—and that’s how we came up with nine ISFJ Enneagram subtypes.
If you ever wondered why some ISFJs are so different from others, you are in the right place. The key to an in-depth understanding of all the possible ISFJ variations lies in analyzing different ISFJ Enneagram combinations.
ISFJs are reserved and introverted, but they still make connections easily because of their deeply compassionate nature, which makes people feel at ease with them quickly. Needless to say, when they become close with someone, they become incredibly caring and protective.
For ISFJs, life is all about family and relationships. However, this does not mean they don’t have great careers. They are rather responsible, hardworking, and usually successful at whatever they choose to do. Moreover, their caring nature and the ability to anticipate other people’s needs make them great team players.
Like all other feeling personality types, ISFJs hold on strongly to their value systems in which justice and fairness play the most important role. Because of that, while they often allow their hearts to rule their heads, they always make sure to do right by everyone.
Highly sensitive and caring, ISFJs are tender and resolute, and living their lives in line with their beliefs and value system is rather important to them. However, not all ISFJs hold on to the same values, nor are all of them so principled. That’s because some Enneatype combinations support their core tendencies while others weaken them.
In general, these ISFJs look tougher and more detached than typical ISFJs, because Ones are less emotional than ISFJs. Moreover, Ones are motivated by their need to be perfect, while ISFJs want to help others to prevent abandonment. So, in terms of motivation, these two types are very different.
However, Ones are highly concerned with justice and fairness, which is one of the ISFJ’s core tendencies, so ISFJ Ones will be fierce in defending different moral issues. Also, just like regular ones, these people will also have an insatiable drive to become the best version of themselves.
Another thing these two types have in common is self-criticism. Ones struggle with their harsh inner critic, and ISFJs can also be tough on themselves, which results in very self-conscious characters. These individuals suffer deeply when they feel they have failed someone or haven’t lived up to their ideals.
That’s also one of the reasons why they dread the idea of doing something wrong and deeply desire to live purposeful lives. Taking all this into account, it is safe to conclude that ISFJ Enneagram Ones will be more perfectionistic, detail-oriented, and structured than regular ISFJs and that taking it easy is the biggest challenge for them.
The compassionate, benevolent, and deeply caring ISFJs often center their lives around taking care of other people. The exact same drive motivates Enneagram Twos to anticipate other people’s needs and take care of them in different ways. Therefore, it is safe to expect that ISFJ Enneagram Type Two will have all the typical ISFJ traits strongly expressed, unlike the more extroverted and spontaneous ESFPs.
These ISFJs will be exceptionally good at reading other people’s needs. The problems may arise because they easily neglect their own needs at the expense of catering to others. However, the good news is that the more mature they are, the better they get at prioritizing their own needs.
Still, they often have trouble feeling important and worthy unless they please other people first throughout their whole lives. They often hope that once they do, others will return all the affection they selflessly give them.
Their deepest dread is that unless they earn the love of others by taking care of them, they will never be loved for who they are. So, their biggest and most important desire is to feel loved unconditionally.
ISFJ Threes use their exceptional ability to read other people to advance in their careers. They are more sociable, charming, and manipulative than their regular counterparts.However, unlike typical ISFJs, they depend a lot more on social approval and need other people to admire them to feel worthy.
ISFJ Enneagram Threes are also assertive, goal-oriented, practical, and very efficient, so they often excel as managers, but their obsession with exquisiteness may lead them to dishonesty.
Still, since ISFJs have a strong sense of morals, this variation is much more likely to become a workaholic and suffer from burn syndrome than cheat their way to success like typical Threes.
Additionally, ISFJ Threes are constantly trying to run away from the shame caused by thinking less of themselves through overachieving and people-pleasing. They dread the mere idea of being perceived as failures, so they secretly dream about being free to be who they really are without having to impress anyone to feel good.
ISFJs and Fours have a lot in common. Above all, they are both introverted and emotional types, so these traits will be very pronounced in ISFJ Enneagram 4, too. However, while ISFJs are concerned with the needs of other people, Four's sensitivity is pretty egocentric—they are driven to explore their own depths, not those of others.
Introspective and melancholic, these people often feel that something significant is missing from their lives. For that reason, they may be prone to considering themselves flawed and, consequently, unlovable. Painfully aware of their shortcomings, they believe they have to be unique to be worthy of love and respect.
Because of this, ISFJ Fours fear that no matter how hard they try, no one will ever really understand them. At the same time, they deeply desire to be seen as one of a kind, as they believe that’s the only way to be truly accepted by others.
Also, while they may not be so attuned to helping others, ISFJ Enneagram Fours are passionate about exploring their identities and sharing their discoveries with the world. Still, their creativity, skilled hands, and artistic expressions allow them to show how they feel and connect with other people at the same time.
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The ISFJ Enneagram 5 is a very atypical combination. These ISFJs will be more cerebral, rational, and orderly than regular Fives,but they will also use the logical and analytical abilities of Type Five to draw conclusions about the world and other people. Needless to say, the combination of such emotional sensitivity and rationality often leads them to unique insights.
The need for independence and curiosity will also be highly pronounced in this personality type fusion. ISFJ Enneagram Fives will strive to be self-sufficient while they explore the world. They need a lot of time alone to process all their complex findings—their thought process is more linear and structured than in typical ISFJs, and they are also more objective.
Unlike typical ISFJs, who are very practical and reality-oriented, the ISFJ Enneagram Fives will want to understand the theory behind the practice. This is because these people enjoy learning even when they reach old age. They fear that if they show incompetence in any sense, they will be abandoned, while their dreams mostly revolve around pursuing their passions.
ISFJ Enneagram 6 is similar to ISFJs in many ways since there are so many overlaps between these two personality types. They are both concerned with security, feel the need to belong, are ready to work hard, and always help other people.
Quiet and reserved, these people hide a lot of warmth and kindness beneath their typically “worried” look and formal communication. They feel great in large systems where everything is predictable and orderly, as this gives them the sense of security they crave.
The need to belong will be very strong in these individuals, and because of this, they will be very protective of their loved ones. Loyal and devoted, they are family types at their core, always willing to go above and beyond for their partners and friends.
Finally, these ISFJs are very risk-averse, as security is their top priority. They are afraid of being cut off from their loved ones and wish for a peaceful, simple family life.
ISFJs and Sevens have completely different motivations. Sevens seek thrills and adventure, while ISFJ wants security and connection. So, these ISFJs may occasionally feel torn between opposite desires, but the need for security will always prevail in the end.
On the positive side, ISFJ Enneagram Sevens are more relaxed, easy-going, and open to feeling the joy of life and not only working to do their chores and meet the needs of others. They will be open to a certain level of novelty and spice in their lives, but only after a detailed consideration of all the possible risks.
Sevens also highlight the emotional warmth of the ISFJs, making them more affectionate in communication. These ISFJs are slightly less orderly and structured, but on the other hand, they are more spontaneous and creative.
The biggest fear of this type is that they will be separated from their loved ones and face unbearable pain, as they have issues dealing with unpleasant emotions. As for their desires, they want a stable, organized life full of small pleasures, surrounded by their loved ones, with a few occasional, thoughtfully planned adventures from time to time.
ISFJs who identify with Enneagram Type 8, the Challenger, are very rare, as these two personality types are profoundly different. For that reason, they are very often mistyped, and it’s hard to determine which personality type they belong to in either of the two systems.
At first, these ISFJs will give off the impression that they are very assertive, energetic, and in control. However, as you get to know them better, you will notice that they struggle with trust and are, therefore, very concerned about not falling prey to manipulation or control.
For that reason, ISFJ Eights may come off defensive or confrontational when they feel their autonomy is jeopardized. They have a lot of pent-up anger, just like typical Eights, but since they are not Eights, they don’t express this anger directly. Instead, they suppress it, limiting their emotional expression.
So, needless to say, these individuals fear being controlled and betrayed the most, while their desires are all about holding their lives in their hands. They are very dedicated and passionate in relationships but also very possessive and domineering.
ISFJs and Nines have pretty similar characters and, therefore, easily blend in with one another. This variation represents compassionate and friendly people who enjoy spending time with their loved ones and see the beauty in the little things in life. They are also exceptionally supportive, caring, and good at resolving conflicts, a contrast to the more dynamic and outward-facing ESTPs. An Enneagram 9 male within this type might find even greater satisfaction in these harmonious relationships, emphasizing peace and mutual support.
These ISFJs are focused on their family lives and are not at all motivated to make careers or impress anyone. They prefer working on their relationships, and their worst nightmare is to have everyone leave them. For this reason, these individuals take great pleasure in preserving harmony in their environment, besides being naturally kind and loving.
Counselors and peacemakers are the usual roles ISFJs usually take in their friend groups and families. Exactly because they are so strongly motivated to protect the harmony, they have a tendency to suppress feelings, especially when they know these may make someone feel hurt. Unfortunately, this often leads to anger issues which are very typical of Type Nine.
ISFJs are very emotional and sensitive, so they easily identify with the most emotional Enneagram types. On the other hand, ambitious and success-oriented Enneagram types are the least common among ISFJs.
The most common ISFJ Enneagram types are Sixes, Twos, and Nines.
With their caring nature and need to belong, Type Six perfectly matches the ISFJ’s character description, so it is no wonder that the majority of ISFJs identify as Sixes. Twos follow closely after. They are emotionally attuned to other people's needs and very delicate and sensitive, just like ISFJs, while Nines also correspond well with the typical ISFJ personality.
The least common Enneagram types are Eights, Fives, and Threes.
Fives are cerebral, detached, and emotionally reserved, which has nothing to do with typical ISFJs. Eights are power-driven and not the least concerned with their relationships, and Threes are hungry for success and social recognition, which, again, has nothing in common with the regular ISFJ personality.
ISFJs are enthusiastic, loyal people who can be very hard to change. Exactly because of that, their characters will not alter so significantly that they become unrecognizable, regardless of which Enneagram type they identify with.
Sixes, Nines, and Twos are the most common Enneagram types among ISFJs, and it is obvious why. These types are empathetic, people-oriented, and responsible at the same time, which are all ISFJ’s core traits.
Type Eight is, meanwhile, so rare that it is almost impossible to imagine how rare ISFJ Enneagram Eights would be. Threes are motivated by entirely different things, so the minority of ISFJs identify as Achievers. Fives are also pretty uncommon, as they are very detached and stick to their logic while suppressing their emotions, which is something an ISFJ almost never does.
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