26 June 2023
Every INFJ is unique, so seeing this personality type through the Enneagram typology can be of great help in understanding these complex and delicate characters. Depending on how they identify in Enneagram, we recognize nine different INFJ Enneagram types.
These curious souls hold many contradictions. They can be cold and rational in some areas while being incredibly compassionate in others. That’s because they strive to understand every situation deeply and often see what other people fail to notice.
Because of how unpredictable they can be, they are also one of the most frequently mistyped personality types. So, let's see how INFJs’ characters may vary depending on which Enneagram type they identify with.
INFJs are creative, compassionate, and insightful people who feel the need to understand everything around them on a deep level. Even though they belong to a feeling personality type, they have a very pronounced ability to think logically.
Such a mix of intuition, logic, and emotionality is indeed rare to find in one person. Because of such a richness of character, INFJs express their personalities in a wide variety of ways. This variety is also the reason why they are often misunderstood or mistaken for different personality types.
This adaptable personality type also shows a huge potential for change and development. We can witness this by understanding how their character changes depending on which Enneagram type they belong to.
Different Enneatypes will highlight different aspects of the INFJ personality. Some may fit better than others, but INFJs surely have the capacity to understand themselves and find a way to express who they are no matter what. So, let’s observe INFJs through the Enneagram's typology!
INFJ Enneagram Type One will, in many ways, display the typical INFJ traits. Both Ones and INFJs are highly idealistic perfectionists with a strong innate sense of right and wrong. Therefore, we can only expect an INFJ Enneagram One to be even more idealistic and perfectionistic. However, this also means they will be even more self-critical.
These people will have a very defined vision for the future and a strong drive to live up to their potential. They are very responsible and diligent people who are always willing to help others, often at the expense of their own needs. Because they feel so compelled to do their best and take care of others, they may have trouble relaxing.
However, when they get disappointed, beware of their criticism and anger. Since Type One belongs to the Enneagram gut triad, anger is the core feeling that gets triggered in them during stressful times. This means that, in such cases, they can become incredibly harsh both on themselves and other people.
Since Ones are afraid of being defective or bad in some way and INFJs’ deepest fear is of being unloved, an INFJ One will believe that no one can love them unless they are morally correct. The deepest desire of these people is to be loved and respected for all the good they do.
INFJ Enneagram Two will be more friendly, outgoing, and extraverted than most other INFJs.
Their intuition will be developed to perfection, and so will their empathy. This personality type can see through other people like no one else. Still, just as they see other people’s talents, they will also see their shortcomings.
The depths of their understanding of human nature are unimaginable to other people and often lead them to pursue helping professions. They generously share their insights and offer emotional support to everyone, unlike ISTJs, who are more reserved in their emotional expressions.
However, it is exactly their emotional generosity that often leads them to neglect their own needs. Unless they learn to acknowledge their own needs and establish healthy boundaries, they may end up being the ones who need help and support and not the ones who offer it.
INFJs and Twos share the same fears, which largely revolve around being unloved. So, an INFJ Two will try to eliminate this fear in a way that is typical of Type Two—by attending to other people’s needs and offering their helping hand to everyone.
The deepest INFJ’s desire doesn’t change under the influence of Type Two but only becomes even more pronounced—they just want to be loved and use all their talents and competence to earn the love they need.
The Enneagram Type Three, also called the Achiever, will boost the judging function of the INFJ personality and make it more driven and ambitious. This INFJ will also be more extroverted and have more pronounced leadership qualities than a typical INFJ.
INFJ Type Three will use their incredible ability to read other people for their own gain but will also take care not to harm anyone. Goal-oriented and aware of the social dynamics in their environment, these people are often capable of realizing their ambitions and rising above mediocrity.
Unlike INFJs, they care about prestige and need external validation, but at the same time, they are never as competitive as typical Threes. They actually like to see other people succeed, which is one of the reasons why they make excellent leaders. Their charm and communication skills also help them move through life with grace and success.
This INFJ will believe they have to impress others to deserve their love, which is the reflection of their core fear of being unloved. So, logically, their deepest desires will also revolve around achieving something that will ensure them the love of other people forever.
Unsurprisingly, the imaginative and authentic Enneagram Four is considered the most typical INFJ type. However, the combination of these two types may be slightly more introverted and private than a regular INFJ.
Enneagram Four highlights the mere essence of the INFJ character—these people are deeply motivated to explore their identities and dive into the world of the human psyche.
Their intuition and ability to read other people will be indispensable, but they may not communicate as easily as some other INFJs, which is why they are prone to feeling misunderstood. For this reason, they may seek relief in artistic expression and are often artistically gifted.
Even though they will still be rather compassionate and caring, INFJ Enneagram Four will be more interested in developing their individuality than in helping other people. This is because they live with a strong feeling that everyone’s life has a unique purpose, and they feel compelled to find it.
These individuals' deepest fear is that no one will ever be able to truly understand them with all the nuance and depth with which they understand other people. This fear propels them to find a way to express their authenticity, and their deepest desire is to show the world who they are and be loved for that.
Enneagram Fives and INFJs are complementary in many ways. Both have a need to deeply understand the world around them. Still, while INFJs use their intuition to do that, Fives rely more on logic. So, an INFJ Enneagram Five will have a nice balance between their rational and intuitive sides and, therefore, be more objective.
Since Type Five is very introverted and detached, INFJ Fives will not be as warm and generous as regular INFJs, and they will have a greater need for solitude. Because of this, they may struggle to achieve closeness with other people, and intimate relationships may be very challenging for them.
While INFJ Fives emphasize the need for time alone to process and analyze their impressions, they also often neglect their need for support and love from others. They would rather give up on the possibility of a real connection than risk being rejected.
These INFJs’ deepest fear is that no one can love them unless they are competent and self-reliant. Because of this, they dream of achieving absolute independence and autonomy and being free to pursue their passions.
INFJ Enneagram Sixes will be more sensitive, insecure, and worried than typical INFJs. Though INFJs are not the most confident personality type, they tend to gain self-confidence as they mature. However, an INFJ Type 6 will have a constant tendency to doubt their abilities and the intentions of other people, unlike the typically more confident and action-oriented ESTPs.
Because of their trust issues, these individuals will seek security in their relationships, work, and environment. They will be more loyal and protective of their inner circle and also more introverted.
The natural tendency of INFJs to help other people will be supported by the Sixes’ need to be of use to others. These people will stick to their word no matter what and will never leave their loved ones when faced with hardship.
Additionally, because of the Sixes’ fear of the future, the INFJs’ intuition will mostly be directed toward preventing the worst-case scenarios and ensuring life flows smoothly. They are constantly afraid of being betrayed, while the thing they want the most is to live a stable, peaceful family life.
INFJ Enneagram Seven is a very rare personality type, as the easy-going and fun-loving Type Seven seems to have little in common with the INFJ personality. Yet, Type Seven surely adds entirely new qualities to INFJs, making them more relaxed and open to new experiences.
What these two types undoubtedly have in common is curiosity. As a result, Enneagram Seven's enthusiastic optimism will fuel the typical INFJ's desire to discover the deeper meaning of life. Though the INFJ Sevens’ thought process may not be as clear and structured as in regular INFJs, they will generally have more fun in life.
These individuals will be exceptionally dedicated to personal growth and development. They are also often rather inspiring to others, as they radiate a lot of positive energy while pursuing their passions.
Moreover, INFJ Enneagram Sevens will do anything to avoid living an ordinary life. This may be reflected in their choice of profession or overall lifestyle. Freedom to learn and understand the world based on their own experience matters more to them than academic knowledge.
These INFJs’ deepest fears will mostly revolve around facing unpleasant feelings, including the feeling of being unloved. But, instead of focusing on preventing being abandoned, they will focus on avoiding the feeling of being abandoned. As for their core desire, they want to be free to pursue their passions.
Despite seeming differences, Type Eight and INFJs are quite compatible and produce a very strong and harmonious personality. This INFJ will be more assertive, ambitious, goal-oriented, and inclined to leadership.
The combination of the strong will of the Eight combined and the intuition and emotional awareness of the INFJ personality type results in strong and self-confident characters who, while generous and willing to help, never lose sight of their own goals.
INFJ Enneatype Eights will also be fiercely independent and unwilling to conform to social expectations. Their social skills will be more developed than in typical INFJs, but they will make sure they live up to their potential before they dedicate their lives to helping other people.
This INFJ is not so afraid of being unloved—being in someone else's control sounds way more terrifying to them. Additionally, while they may not be as power-hungry as typical Eights, their deepest desires will definitely revolve around protecting their autonomy and freedom.
INFJs fairly often identify as Enneagram Nines. The generous, kind, and deeply compassionate nature of Type Nine is very similar to the typical INFJ character. INFJ Enneagram Nines will, therefore, fight for all the values a typical INFJ holds on to while letting their heart lead the way.
Strong yet quiet, these people tend to be very popular in their environment because of their warm and loving nature and ability to deeply understand and accept everyone. They modestly take care that the peace in their community is protected and take great joy in motivating other people to give their best.
Delicate and refined, these people are often very prone to artistic expression, even when they are not artists themselves. Apart from art, helping professions are also one of the best ways for them to use their unique understanding of other people.
The core fears and desires of INFJ Enneagram Nines are no different than those of regular INFJs. They dread being unloved, rejected, and abandoned and dream of knowing they are loved and accepted. In other words, it is exactly what they give so generously to others that they yearn for the most.
Like many highly compassionate types, INFJs have a sort of chameleon aspect to their nature. For that reason, they may easily identify with every Enneagram Type as they have the ability to understand them profoundly. Still, some INFJ Enneagram combinations will be more common than others.
Enneagram Fours, Twos, Nines, and Ones are the most common Enneatypes among INFJs.
With their need to understand themselves, explore their identities, and distinguish their uniqueness, Fours are unsurprisingly the most common Enneatype among INFJs.
Twos follow closely—mostly because of their empathy and the need to help others, which is a huge part of INFJs' identity too.
Since perfectionism also plays an important role in the INFJ’s character, the idealistic and noble Type One is also commonly combined with the INFJ personality.
Nines are also not a rare Enneatype to find among INFJs because of their compassionate and caring nature, which is one of the INFJ’s key traits.
Enneagram Types Three, Seven, and Eight are highly uncommon among INFJs, and considering what drives these types, that doesn’t come as a surprise.
Threes are all about achievement and social approval, which are not values a typical INFJ cares about.
Sevens, on the other hand, tend to be rather superficial and fun-loving, which is the exact opposite of INFJs, who take everything seriously and seek the deeper meaning of life.
Finally, the power-hungry Eights are too real and goal-oriented compared to INFJs, who are all about helping others, so it makes sense why INFJ Enneagram 8s are extremely rare.
Regardless of the Enneagram type INFJs identify with, their core nature will remain the same. What changes is how they strive to fulfill their desires and alleviate their fears.
The majority of INFJs will identify with Fours, Twos, and Nines because they are just as emotional, compassionate, and insightful as they are.
Enneagram Threes, Sevens, and Eights have the least in common with typical INFJs, so these will be the rarest correlations.
All in all, INFJs will always find a way to remain authentic, offer unique insights to us, and pursue their passions!
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