17 May 2023
Is it possible to even understand these self-absorbed, yet lovely 4w5 bohemians? They often seem like they hold the secret of the entire universe but don’t want to share it with you. Moreover, they are one of the Enneagram types with the greatest thirst for knowledge, that much is certain.
If you are curious to know more about this type, you are in for a treat. In this article, we will explore what’s behind the 4w5s’ thirst for knowledge, what they dream about, what they fear, what they desire, and much more.
Ready? Let’s start!
Fours are one of the biggest individualists in the Enneagram. Their world and identity are structured around their emotions. But, since emotions are so fluid and ever-changing, their sense of identity is often very fragile. In light of this, Fours are highly motivated to explore their emotional reality and inner world. In other words, they are on a quest to find their true selves.
On the other hand, the brilliant Fives keep their emotions at bay while exploring the world with the curiosity of a child. Emotions get in their way of understanding everything, so they sometimes seem detached, but they want to master life by knowing as much as possible about it.
When these two types combine into one, the result is a rare personality that is curious to explore the depths of both the inner and outer worlds. In 4w5, the incredible imagination of Fours fuses with the rationality and logic of Fives, so it’s no wonder this type is one of the most creative and unique types of the Enneagram.
If you scored highest for Four on your Enneagram test, but you also got a very high result for Five, then type Five is your wing, meaning you are a 4w5 Enneagram type.
Every type can have one wing, which is one of the two types that surround it. Based on that, Fours can have a Three or a Five wing.
So, what effect does the Five wing have on Fours? Firstly, as both types are very introverted and self-sufficient, 4w5 will surely not be a social butterfly. Also, both types despise superficiality—when they are interested in something, they want to dive deep into it.
And, finally, since Fives can successfully control their emotions, the 4w5 type will be less subjective and dependent on their feelings than a core Four.
Since Fours and Fives already share many characteristics, those shared traits will combine and become the sources of 4w5s’ biggest strengths. Unfortunately, the same goes for their weaknesses.
Maybe not all, but many of the 4w5s’ most impressive strengths are actually the result of the mix of Fours’ imagination and emotionality and Fives’ logical mind.
So, here are some unique virtues of this personality type:
Despite having many positive aspects, the 4w5s' intense inward focus actually leaves them vulnerable in some other facets of life. It is safe to say that the majority of their other weaknesses are grouped together under this tendency toward self-isolation.
With that in mind, let’s present the most critical 4w5s’ weaknesses:
4w5s are spiritual seekers, and it is safe to say that their fears and desires generally revolve around finding or not finding the truth they seek.
Made of pure emotions and intellect, this fragile type has many fears, including the ones of:
The greatest desires of 4w5s are actually fueled by their biggest fears. Because these people have so many fears, they try to get rid of them by acquiring more knowledge and through creative endeavors. This is especially true for an Enneagram 4 female, who may feel a deep need to express her unique inner world. Therefore, their core desires will be:
Can you imagine a bohemian and an aristocrat hanging out together?
Though essentially they are both Fours, 4w5 and 4w3 are so different that it is almost impossible to confuse them.
A 4w3 will be more similar to a Three because the Four's desire to be recognized as unique corresponds well with the Three's desire to achieve something extraordinary. In addition, the Three wing helps Fours become friendlier and more grounded in reality.
The Five wing, on the other hand, emphasizes the polar opposite, making Fours even more reclusive and self-centered. In contrast to a 4w3, a 4w5 is not looking to impress anyone. They don't seek fame and admiration; they seek to understand the meaning of life.
For 4w3s, who find so much inspiration in their inner world, it’s crucial to spend enough time alone reflecting, exploring, and pondering life. A good book, a good movie, an artistic project, or another similar creative endeavor lights their fire and keeps it burning for a long time.
These people deeply enjoy investigating the ideas they have and collecting facts to create unique concepts and explanations. When they think they have made a big step forward in their understanding of life, they will want to share what they have learned through art, books, or other creative means. This way, they seek to connect with others.
They also suffer from chronic loneliness, so when they find someone who truly gets them and shares their interests and with whom they can communicate, they will also be very motivated.
Finally, even though they rarely admit it and frequently aren't even aware of it, they have a strong desire to belong somewhere. Their motivation increases once they feel like they can fit in without having to compromise who they are.
A 4w5 is a very creative, out-of-the-box person who needs a lot of freedom to explore and show what they can do. If they are stuck in a setting that is too rigid, conservative, and stereotypical, they may feel more stressed.
In such circumstances, they will tend to withdraw and dive even deeper into their own world. And though their aloof and sometimes arrogant image may trick people into thinking they don't need anyone, that's not nearly true.When they are caught in situations like those mentioned above, they need someone who understands them.
Other sources of stress for this type come from spending too much time with people. As they are very introverted, having to make small talk with a bunch of unknown people for too long or too often puts their nerves under strain. They enjoy the company of a few chosen individuals who really get them—amusing other people is senseless and exhausting for them.
Though the 4w3 personality type loves solitude, a special kind of danger comes from spending too much time alone with their thoughts. Because they lose touch with reality so easily—if they are left alone and isolated for a long time, for example—they may feel lost and confused.
Generally, the direction of their emotional reactions during stress is inward rather than outward. They will not cause scenes or act inappropriately, but rather suffer in silence.
4w5 is a prototype for an artist, an expert in the field, or a specialist. They need to be independent and a bit challenged to give their best. Therefore, they will thrive as freelancers, independent associates, and consultants of all kinds.
They can be good team players if given enough freedom to explore their ideas, but they generally lack people skills and struggle to fit in socially. Nonetheless, they are usually highly regarded because they usually hold a lot of knowledge about the business they are in.
Furthermore, they are excellent problem solvers who frequently come up with rather creative solutions. With that in mind, they can contribute significantly to a team if they are accepted for who they are and not subjected to overly strict corporate rules.
These people are not interested in managerial positions, nor do they dream about becoming leaders. They excel as independent workers who are expected to contribute with creativity, knowledge, and strategic thinking.
4w5s are usually knowledgeable, educated individuals with a wide array of skills, and they never get tired of learning. On top of that, they are often exceptionally creative. For this reason, they can be a great addition to all kinds of businesses and companies.
The agile mind of a 4w5 needs to be preoccupied with complex concepts and creative challenges. With that in mind, here are some of the best career choices for them:
Considering that too much contact with people drains 4w5s and that they can’t stand repetitive work, the worst career choices for them include:
It is obvious that a secluded type such as a 4w5 does not dream of fame. Still, their knowledge and talent often make them famous, though. Speaking of that, here are some of the most famous 4w5 celebrities:
That’s it—now you understand why 4w5s are so special!
Before you go, let’s take just one more look at their key traits:
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